What's Your Wedding Etiquette IQ?

Discover how well you understand modern wedding etiquette—from invitation dos and don'ts to managing difficult guests. In just 4 quick questions, we'll assess your readiness to host gracefully or attend respectfully. Get personalized guidance on the etiquette rules that matter most, plus a custom action plan to ensure your celebration (or your role as a guest) becomes a cherished memory.

When planning your wedding invitations, what information do you consider most essential to include?

Just the date and venue address—guests can figure out the rest Date, time, venue, and dress code, but dietary needs seem optional Date, time, venue, dress code, RSVP deadline, and dietary options, though parking info would be nice Complete date/time, full venue address with parking, explicit dress code, RSVP deadline with multiple response methods, dietary accommodation options, and clear plus-one policy

A guest arrives 30 minutes late to the ceremony and is noticeably intoxicated during the reception. How would you handle this?

Ignore it—it's their responsibility to manage their own behaviour Politely ask them to leave or reduce their alcohol consumption Suggest they take a break, offer water and food, and have a trusted friend spend time with them Discreetly involve a trusted wedding party member to intervene, offer water/food, and manage the situation diplomatically while protecting your celebration's positive energy

How confident are you about your plus-one policy and communicating it to guests?

I haven't really thought about it—I'll just see who shows up I have a vague idea but haven't communicated it clearly on invitations I've decided on a policy (like offering plus-ones to single guests) and mentioned it in invitations I've established a consistent policy, communicated it clearly on invitations, and can explain the reasoning (budget, venue, guest relationships) if asked

When you receive a wedding invitation, what's your typical response timeline and approach?

I respond whenever I get around to it, sometimes after the deadline I respond within a week or two, but not always by the stated deadline I respond within the deadline using the method provided, though I sometimes forget dietary details I respond promptly by the deadline, provide all requested information (dietary needs, plus-one confirmation), and contact the couple if I have questions